A Record Setting Catch With My Dad and Son

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Yesterday was a special day…

I have had catches with my dad for most of the 57 years of my life.

I have had catches with my sons for all of their lives including my youngest son Ethan’s 26 years.

I had a catch with my dad on the Field of Dreams years before it ever become a “thing.”

I have catches with Ethan at least twice a week all spring and summer long as we play on the same baseball team.

Each time we have a catch, it is something special, wonderful, and timeless. I cherish every single catch we have. Having catches with my dad and my sons are some of the most special and the happiest times of my life. Sometimes the most simple things have the most meaning.

Playing catch with my dad is special.

Playing catch as a dad is special.

But never before have we had a catch that ended up in the Guinness Book of Records!

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CRUSHING The Long Run!

17.5 miles. Yes, you read that correctly. 17.5 miles. A great 17.5 mile run!!!

The long run was CRUSHED!

The long run was DESTROYED!

The long run was CONQUERED!

The man Is MARATHON READY! OH YEAH!

No, not me. I covered the distance, yes, but I didn’t run that far. It wasn’t me. It was Alex!

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But The Best Part…

I got the start today for our baseball team.

I went the first five innings and earned the win. We won 7-4.

I never thought, at 56-years-old, I’d still be playing baseball, and pitching no less.

I am on a wonderful team comprised of the greatest group of men you could imagine. I look forward to every game.

Every game is a joy. Every inning. Every single pitch. It is all wonderful. I’m living a dream.

And dreams are good.

But the best part of it all isn’t a dream.

The best part is that I get to play baseball on the same team alongside my son.

There is nothing better than that.

The Most Valuable Baseball Card Set Ever

On Christmas Eve, my father gave me the most wonderful set of baseball cards I’ll ever own. These cards are also the most valuable in my collection. “Priceless” is a word used too often, but these cards, individually and as a set, just might fit that description.

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The Greatest of All Time!

As we progress through life, our priorities change – sometimes dramatically.  As we age, we gain wisdom and make decisions, big and small, placing different values on things that we determine to be important.  Some things that might have seemed important at one time no longer are.  As life changes, priorities change.  

And this is good and necessary and important.

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They Are Wrong!

June 1, 2024

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There is a common adage that one of the best things about bring a grandparent is that you get to say “goodbye” when you’re tired and give the kids back to their parents. There is this sense that walking away is great.

That adage is wrong.

They are wrong!

Today we said goodbye to our new grandbabies to head home after spending a few wonderful days with them.

Saying goodbye isn’t the best thing about being a grandparent. It’s the worst.

I want to stay with those little angels forever. I’m counting down the minutes until we see them again…

Saying “Hello” is what I’m looking forward to!

My Newest Name (Just Might Be The Best)

May 24, 2024

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Throughout our lives we are given many different names.

When I first came into this world, I was given a name – Paul Russell Semendinger.  Along with that, I was also a brother, a son, a nephew, a cousin, and a grandson.  The names came quickly at the start.

As we grow up, we’re then given other names including nicknames, and such…

Paul became, at times, Paulie.  Among the kids, I became Sem.  That one stuck with me, in various forms, even to the present day. 

When I became a teacher, I was very quickly, Mr. Sem.  Years later, as a principal, with a new degree, I earned the title Dr. Sem.  Even later, as college instructor, I became Professor Sem.

All great titles.

Of course, in the years in between, I started to become known by other great names.  I became a husband.  That’s a great name. 

And not many years after, I became Daddy. 

I have always loved being Daddy.  I cherished (and still cherish) the years that my boys were young and I heard that name countless times a day.  It was the best.  The more mature, Dad, is also a great name and one I also cherish.

But the other day, I was given a new name.  I can’t even think of this name without smiling and being overcome with absolute joy and happiness.  And wonder.

The other day, I became Grandpa.

And that just might be the greatest name of them all.  

Life…Is Good!

It’s been a busy few weeks.

It’s been a busy few months.

It’s always busy.

And that’s a good thing.

Life is good!

And I’m saving the best news until the end of this article…

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4.3 Miles… For Mark (I Miss You, My Friend)

My dear brother-in-law Mark passed away in February. It was sudden, unexpected, gut wrenching, and very very very sad. It still is.

My life, and my family’s life, will never be the same.

Mark was a special person, a true kind human being who did not have a mean or angry bone in his body. He simply loved everyone and he saw everyone as his friend. Mark didn’t understand unkindness. It made no sense to him. Literally. It simply made no sense. He couldn’t understand it. More, he couldn’t even comprehend it.

Mark considered me his best friend. And I was. And he was mine, too.

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Closing and Opening Doors To God

On July 11, 2021, I was asked to deliver the sermon at Grace United Methodist Church in Wyckoff, New Jersey.

The following is the transcript of my sermon.

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God asks a lot of us.  All the time.  He wants us to be reverent.

He wants us to love him.

He loves us…

He asks us to pray.  He even had Jesus teach us how to pray.

God wants us to follow the Golden Rule.

He wants us to be kind, to be generous, to love… to love one another as he loves us. 

He asks us to honor our mothers and fathers, to not lust, or want, or use his name in vain.

Or take false idols.

Or to kill.

He asks a lot of us.

Because he loves us.

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